I just came back from back from a mighty fine show at the Fun House tonight. I was condensing it into something more manageable while on my ride home. Here is what happened to come out of it.
what a joyful sound
He dances like 5 pine planks painted black and nailed together;
And another, he moves like those plug-in Santas that light up and jingle bell boogie.
Heads and arms are spinning like Saturn rings, their finger tips are many moons;
I dance like a lazy donkey, ears floppy and booted hoof so lightly stomping.
She dances like a three quarter full pitcher of lemonade perspiring
On a wobbly end-table, a July evening, before the lightning bugs are shining.
And everybody moves, but it will not be like me and it will not be like you-
Everybody moves but it has to be different if you want it to be true.
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Saturday, July 18, 2009
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
Patrick amasses some recent little revelations
- People drive over speed bumps in different ways and at different speeds, and I like to pretend that that is the way they approach events in their life.
-I miss my best friend much more than I could have imagined, and it is only deepened by the fact that I can't contact her in any way. But then again I know when I see her it will be a(these are the only words I can possibly think to describe it)golden jubilee.
-The strange aphorisms of Frances Caroline Waldear make me giggle and are rarely understood by people who do not see them come out her mouth. Ask her for her opinion if you see her, it will be one of the best you have ever heard. If you live in Chicago I suggest you ask Martha Lein, she has been on a roll recently (who am I kidding Martha is always on a roll).
-If I could choose anything to remember most clearly from the Yeah Yeah Yeahs show, it how RoRo's eyes looked everytime they played and old song.
-Stewing in your own sweaty discomfort, both physically and mental, doesn't always bring you comfort. Sometimes you just end up over ripened and sad.
- When I open myself up to the world, I feel like a milk bottle pyrimd at a carnival. Some people are able to knock me down better than others, but but there is always a chance that they will miss. And even if I do get hit I rarely am knocked over completely. And even if they win, at least they get a prize. It also allows me to see people who try to knock me down as bloated from cotton candy and chili con carne. Thats my prize.
-I miss my best friend much more than I could have imagined, and it is only deepened by the fact that I can't contact her in any way. But then again I know when I see her it will be a(these are the only words I can possibly think to describe it)golden jubilee.
-The strange aphorisms of Frances Caroline Waldear make me giggle and are rarely understood by people who do not see them come out her mouth. Ask her for her opinion if you see her, it will be one of the best you have ever heard. If you live in Chicago I suggest you ask Martha Lein, she has been on a roll recently (who am I kidding Martha is always on a roll).
-If I could choose anything to remember most clearly from the Yeah Yeah Yeahs show, it how RoRo's eyes looked everytime they played and old song.
-Stewing in your own sweaty discomfort, both physically and mental, doesn't always bring you comfort. Sometimes you just end up over ripened and sad.
- When I open myself up to the world, I feel like a milk bottle pyrimd at a carnival. Some people are able to knock me down better than others, but but there is always a chance that they will miss. And even if I do get hit I rarely am knocked over completely. And even if they win, at least they get a prize. It also allows me to see people who try to knock me down as bloated from cotton candy and chili con carne. Thats my prize.
Monday, May 18, 2009
Patrick has a new mantra
No one asks to be born- but that doesn't mean you have to hate that you are here.
You can be like yourself just with a new pair of sunglasses, you can be yourself with just a touch of someone else.
Have you ever performed an action you would never associate with your character (in fact it is some action that you associate with someone else entirely) and you realize it only after its done, making you smile and laugh a little to yourself. To condense that: have you ever done something you don't do, that someone else does, and liked it. If you couldn't tell, that was the gist of my thursday morning, I became for a brief stretch of time, Jeff Gill.
Jeff Gill is my brother. He is my rock of Gibraltar while being the bane of my existence, he is the ringing in my ear when something I am wearing is too loud and sometimes a philosopher king; but all metaphors aside, Jeff Gill is my brother. I love him dearly. And I could not be alive and well without my brother in my life. So when I woke up, on a day where my work was canceled, I refilled the coffee maker with dark, fair trade, coffee and some cheap espresso powder I bought at Aldi . It was just like getting ready any other day, but without the pressure of leaving. I then had a taste in my mouth for something nostalgic but new. I had time to kill. I remembered I had always wanted to get into the band X, the southern California punk icons who have delivered a continual onslaught of sonic glory on the world for decades. So I went to youtube and shamelessly listened to their live stuff (youtube is a good point of reference, when discovering new bands, and judging me is stupid because I judge myself so much already); X is everything I wanted in a solid and beautiful punk band(steady speed, angsty but not trite, no instrument overshadowing another, and the plus point of a good female vocalist). I then made a Pandora station of them, I was then lost in wonder. The Ramones and the Clash came on, the Decedents, the Jam, the Misfits,and the Dead Kennedys whipped through too. I even got Video Romeo and Siouxse and the Banshees. And X would come up over and over again, bringing to my table what I had been missing for years. My coffeemaker was soon sputtering that it was all out of water, so I took of the pot and poured the smoldering liquid into my cup ( the one with the lords prayer and Myrtle Beach painted on it). I mixed in some sugar from my lovely old time sugar bowl, and decided while the good music was playing I could get in the zone to read some for my classes. The beat helped my keep on point, but sometimes I would get distracted by my eye twitching from caffeine or the chorus of a song. After around an hour or so of this kind of living though, I almost dropped my coffee in my lap and my eyes blasted open and felt like a window in a windstorm. I had become Jeff Gill. Or at least I had woken up and gone on with my day in the way I thought Jeff Gill would have. Every time we talked while he was in college he would proclaim the glories of coffee with more coffee and bar chords with more bar chords and being at peace with yourself when this all twined together. Granted I wasn't reading the Financial Times like him, but 19th century British poems could suffice. I told him about this when he called later that day, and I would like to think I made his drive through East Texas bearable. He laughed, and proceeded to tell me how he filled up two bottles of powerade with his urine, and was driving safer than he used to back home ("No no no Patrick, I drive much safer now, like 80 to 90, not 90 to 100.)
Doing this welcomed into my mind so many feelings: pride, honor, commradire, excitment, dehydration, and a strange sense of liberation. First of all, it is understandably confusing to feel free while acting like someone else; but in essence what what I was doing was not acting like Jeff, but simply taking what I saw and heard from him, distilling his thoughts and applying myself to them. If this brought me joy without me trying, what could happen if I did this actively? To go even deeper into my mind, when I felt angsty in my teenage years and rejected even by my so closely knit family (If you know them, don't ask how I came to the conclusion that they hated me sometimes), I made a decision to never be like Jeff. Jeff was my best friend growing up, and I felt abandoned when he left for college and changed. I never wanted to like what he liked in college: fast driving, dark coffee, fast music, philosophy. I already have brought philosophy into my life, but not in the way Jeff had. And for a few years I had myself fooled into believing I could never like fast and hard music again; finally when I brought it together with lovely lovely coffee, I felt happy, and not just because Jeff did it, but because those were all things I actually liked. It was almost as if I had been denying myself these things because they are liked by Jeff. Don't deny yourself of something you love just because it may associate you with someone you don't want to. You could be embarrassed by your love, but its still something wonderful to you.
Taking up someone else's process can make daily living an exploration, and it can sometimes create a bond between you and the person you are imitating. In a strange way I saw myself venerating my brother, and taking up a similar method to our life goal: living happily. That moves me to the second thing I felt while I sipped my coffee: I felt like I was honoring my brother in a small way. I was doing something he swore by, something that he would jokingly say was integral for human survival. And it was just as good as he described it, the computer shuttering as it emitted heavy and fast waves of sound, the second pot of coffee roaring as it was close to burning, and me reading, shutting out all other stimuli save those three. And though I love these things all well, I felt like Jeff was proud of me for taking on his traditions and enjoying them. I felt that I validated, barely and possibly only in my own mind, some of the things he did and showed him how much he meant to me. And the feeling of someone being proud of me, is so beautiful, so beautiful.
Yes a small thing like waking up to coffee and punk can show someone you love them, so think then what things you enjoy that someone else does, that you can bring into your life and hold special with them. People don't have to be dead for you to honor them. And you don't have to do something completely original to be free. I am not saying every action you undertake must be lifted from someone else, if that we to happen... oh lord that is a whole other stories worth of metaphor and bombast. I am simply saying that you can take from your own time a small space, and take from someone close to you a small action, and fuse them into something harmonious and yours. You can be like yourself just with a new pair of sunglasses, you can be yourself with just a touch of someone else. And it can make you feel good, you can feel good.
Jeff Gill is my brother. He is my rock of Gibraltar while being the bane of my existence, he is the ringing in my ear when something I am wearing is too loud and sometimes a philosopher king; but all metaphors aside, Jeff Gill is my brother. I love him dearly. And I could not be alive and well without my brother in my life. So when I woke up, on a day where my work was canceled, I refilled the coffee maker with dark, fair trade, coffee and some cheap espresso powder I bought at Aldi . It was just like getting ready any other day, but without the pressure of leaving. I then had a taste in my mouth for something nostalgic but new. I had time to kill. I remembered I had always wanted to get into the band X, the southern California punk icons who have delivered a continual onslaught of sonic glory on the world for decades. So I went to youtube and shamelessly listened to their live stuff (youtube is a good point of reference, when discovering new bands, and judging me is stupid because I judge myself so much already); X is everything I wanted in a solid and beautiful punk band(steady speed, angsty but not trite, no instrument overshadowing another, and the plus point of a good female vocalist). I then made a Pandora station of them, I was then lost in wonder. The Ramones and the Clash came on, the Decedents, the Jam, the Misfits,and the Dead Kennedys whipped through too. I even got Video Romeo and Siouxse and the Banshees. And X would come up over and over again, bringing to my table what I had been missing for years. My coffeemaker was soon sputtering that it was all out of water, so I took of the pot and poured the smoldering liquid into my cup ( the one with the lords prayer and Myrtle Beach painted on it). I mixed in some sugar from my lovely old time sugar bowl, and decided while the good music was playing I could get in the zone to read some for my classes. The beat helped my keep on point, but sometimes I would get distracted by my eye twitching from caffeine or the chorus of a song. After around an hour or so of this kind of living though, I almost dropped my coffee in my lap and my eyes blasted open and felt like a window in a windstorm. I had become Jeff Gill. Or at least I had woken up and gone on with my day in the way I thought Jeff Gill would have. Every time we talked while he was in college he would proclaim the glories of coffee with more coffee and bar chords with more bar chords and being at peace with yourself when this all twined together. Granted I wasn't reading the Financial Times like him, but 19th century British poems could suffice. I told him about this when he called later that day, and I would like to think I made his drive through East Texas bearable. He laughed, and proceeded to tell me how he filled up two bottles of powerade with his urine, and was driving safer than he used to back home ("No no no Patrick, I drive much safer now, like 80 to 90, not 90 to 100.)
Doing this welcomed into my mind so many feelings: pride, honor, commradire, excitment, dehydration, and a strange sense of liberation. First of all, it is understandably confusing to feel free while acting like someone else; but in essence what what I was doing was not acting like Jeff, but simply taking what I saw and heard from him, distilling his thoughts and applying myself to them. If this brought me joy without me trying, what could happen if I did this actively? To go even deeper into my mind, when I felt angsty in my teenage years and rejected even by my so closely knit family (If you know them, don't ask how I came to the conclusion that they hated me sometimes), I made a decision to never be like Jeff. Jeff was my best friend growing up, and I felt abandoned when he left for college and changed. I never wanted to like what he liked in college: fast driving, dark coffee, fast music, philosophy. I already have brought philosophy into my life, but not in the way Jeff had. And for a few years I had myself fooled into believing I could never like fast and hard music again; finally when I brought it together with lovely lovely coffee, I felt happy, and not just because Jeff did it, but because those were all things I actually liked. It was almost as if I had been denying myself these things because they are liked by Jeff. Don't deny yourself of something you love just because it may associate you with someone you don't want to. You could be embarrassed by your love, but its still something wonderful to you.
Taking up someone else's process can make daily living an exploration, and it can sometimes create a bond between you and the person you are imitating. In a strange way I saw myself venerating my brother, and taking up a similar method to our life goal: living happily. That moves me to the second thing I felt while I sipped my coffee: I felt like I was honoring my brother in a small way. I was doing something he swore by, something that he would jokingly say was integral for human survival. And it was just as good as he described it, the computer shuttering as it emitted heavy and fast waves of sound, the second pot of coffee roaring as it was close to burning, and me reading, shutting out all other stimuli save those three. And though I love these things all well, I felt like Jeff was proud of me for taking on his traditions and enjoying them. I felt that I validated, barely and possibly only in my own mind, some of the things he did and showed him how much he meant to me. And the feeling of someone being proud of me, is so beautiful, so beautiful.
Yes a small thing like waking up to coffee and punk can show someone you love them, so think then what things you enjoy that someone else does, that you can bring into your life and hold special with them. People don't have to be dead for you to honor them. And you don't have to do something completely original to be free. I am not saying every action you undertake must be lifted from someone else, if that we to happen... oh lord that is a whole other stories worth of metaphor and bombast. I am simply saying that you can take from your own time a small space, and take from someone close to you a small action, and fuse them into something harmonious and yours. You can be like yourself just with a new pair of sunglasses, you can be yourself with just a touch of someone else. And it can make you feel good, you can feel good.
Friday, May 15, 2009
"is there a text in this class?"
"in the procedures i would urge, the reader's activities are at the center of attention, where they are regarded not as leading to meaning but as having meaning. the text is an experience; it occurs; it does something: it makes us do something."
stanley fish
stanley fish
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
you run and hide from your buck teeth and split ends
(SPOILER ALERT!)
Have you ever seen "The Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind"? Yeah, I saw it the night I broke up with my first boyfriend and the idea of erasing my memory was never so appealing. But part of the allure of the storyline was the fact that, at the end, they both fall into the same trap. They were meant to find each other, to fall (literally) madly in love and hurt each other. Maybe I just have an unhealthy view, but it seems half of the excitement of falling in love is being completely unsure what the other will do to you when you are completely vulnerable, have offered yourself completely to them to either discard or embrace. And sure, no one likes arguments with loved ones with icey stares and cold shoulders, but what would love be without making up, without having to say I'm sorry, no really, it was my fault, I realize I really do need you. Do you know what I mean? (END SPOILER HERE!)
You can't have the light with out the dark. Without the shadows, our world would be washed out, blinding, until you could not see the individual features. Most happy people I know, including myself, have reached that highpoint because of the low points before. Excuse this cliche image, but like a rollercoaster gains momentum to climb its peaks from the descent, how can we climb new heights without having crawled through new depths?
Anyways, you are probably wondering when I will get to the point. A few weeks ago, there was an article on the front page of the New York Times about scientists getting closer and closer to being able to erase specific memories from humans' brains. The article claims this discovery will help people overcome addictions, bad habits and help us better understand the lump of tissue that is our brains.
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/04/06/health/research/06brain.html
Benedict Carey, the author of the piece, poses the same questions I worry about, "Millions of people might be tempted to erase a severely painful memory, for instance — but what if, in the process, they lost other, personally important memories that were somehow related? Would a treatment that “cleared” the learned habits of addiction only tempt people to experiment more widely?...
...Yet any such drug, Dr. Hyman and others argue, could be misused to erase or block memories of bad behavior, even of crimes. If traumatic memories are like malicious stalkers, then troubling memories — and a healthy dread of them — form the foundation of a moral conscience....
...A substance that improved memory would immediately raise larger social concerns, as well. “We know that people already use smart drugs and performance enhancers of all kinds, so a substance that actually improved memory could lead to an arms race,” Dr. Hyman said."
These possibilities are all worrisome. I'm sure that, once available to the public, there will be laws, rules, at least some sort of interview process before you can go through with the procedure. Well, the same thing is true for plastic surgery, for sex changes. But that doesn't mean there aren't a handful of doctors who in certain situations put profit before their patient's health.
Then, you could argue, the good that this procedure would overcome the bad. Rape victims, child soldiers all could use a clean slate, a sturdy foundation to base their trust in humanity. After such traumatic events it is nearly impossible to lead a normal life.
Now, excuse me for a moment, because I feel I may insult some. I still do not feel it would be right to erase these memories. No one deserves these experiences but life is the good and the bad. Life is overcoming obstacles and life is getting hurt.
Last night, a former sex slave spoke at my school. His babysitter started prostituting him at the age of seven. He was still turning tricks at twelve, but at this point it was to feed his meth addiction. In his twenties he suffered a mental breakdown and was hospitalized several times. Now, this man works for S.A.G.E. (Standing Against Global Exploitation) in San Francisco. His job within this organization is to teach "Johns" (men who have used prostitutes) the physical and emotional consequences of their actions, to themselves and to the women (or even men, or even young girls and boys) that they are sleeping with. They also take leads and tips to free victims of human trafficking in the area. If there is someone taking part in the sex trade against their will, they do everything in their power to remove them from that situation and help them stand firmly on their own. This man, standing up tall and proud in front of the crowd, acknowledged his unstable childhood and acknowledged its necessity. Without his experiences, he would not be the man he is today, he said. He would also not be able to help S.A.G.E. in the same way he does now, as he would not be able to relate to the victims he sees on a daily basis.
The ability to embrace one's painful memories and realize that they are another building block in the person you have become today is an admirable and incredibly mature quality. It shows you are confident in the person you are now, that with the cards you were dealt you were able to build a castle of sorts.
I'll end with a quote from George Orwell's essay "Reflections on Ghandi" (yeah, he went there);
"The essence of being human is that one does not seek perfection, that one is sometimes willing to commit sins for the sake of loyalty, that one does not push asceticism to the point where it makes friendly intercourse impossible, and that one is prepared in the end to be defeated and broken up by life, which is the inevitable price of fastening one's love upon other human individuals".
Have you ever seen "The Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind"? Yeah, I saw it the night I broke up with my first boyfriend and the idea of erasing my memory was never so appealing. But part of the allure of the storyline was the fact that, at the end, they both fall into the same trap. They were meant to find each other, to fall (literally) madly in love and hurt each other. Maybe I just have an unhealthy view, but it seems half of the excitement of falling in love is being completely unsure what the other will do to you when you are completely vulnerable, have offered yourself completely to them to either discard or embrace. And sure, no one likes arguments with loved ones with icey stares and cold shoulders, but what would love be without making up, without having to say I'm sorry, no really, it was my fault, I realize I really do need you. Do you know what I mean? (END SPOILER HERE!)
You can't have the light with out the dark. Without the shadows, our world would be washed out, blinding, until you could not see the individual features. Most happy people I know, including myself, have reached that highpoint because of the low points before. Excuse this cliche image, but like a rollercoaster gains momentum to climb its peaks from the descent, how can we climb new heights without having crawled through new depths?
Anyways, you are probably wondering when I will get to the point. A few weeks ago, there was an article on the front page of the New York Times about scientists getting closer and closer to being able to erase specific memories from humans' brains. The article claims this discovery will help people overcome addictions, bad habits and help us better understand the lump of tissue that is our brains.
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/04/06/health/research/06brain.html
Benedict Carey, the author of the piece, poses the same questions I worry about, "Millions of people might be tempted to erase a severely painful memory, for instance — but what if, in the process, they lost other, personally important memories that were somehow related? Would a treatment that “cleared” the learned habits of addiction only tempt people to experiment more widely?...
...Yet any such drug, Dr. Hyman and others argue, could be misused to erase or block memories of bad behavior, even of crimes. If traumatic memories are like malicious stalkers, then troubling memories — and a healthy dread of them — form the foundation of a moral conscience....
...A substance that improved memory would immediately raise larger social concerns, as well. “We know that people already use smart drugs and performance enhancers of all kinds, so a substance that actually improved memory could lead to an arms race,” Dr. Hyman said."
These possibilities are all worrisome. I'm sure that, once available to the public, there will be laws, rules, at least some sort of interview process before you can go through with the procedure. Well, the same thing is true for plastic surgery, for sex changes. But that doesn't mean there aren't a handful of doctors who in certain situations put profit before their patient's health.
Then, you could argue, the good that this procedure would overcome the bad. Rape victims, child soldiers all could use a clean slate, a sturdy foundation to base their trust in humanity. After such traumatic events it is nearly impossible to lead a normal life.
Now, excuse me for a moment, because I feel I may insult some. I still do not feel it would be right to erase these memories. No one deserves these experiences but life is the good and the bad. Life is overcoming obstacles and life is getting hurt.
Last night, a former sex slave spoke at my school. His babysitter started prostituting him at the age of seven. He was still turning tricks at twelve, but at this point it was to feed his meth addiction. In his twenties he suffered a mental breakdown and was hospitalized several times. Now, this man works for S.A.G.E. (Standing Against Global Exploitation) in San Francisco. His job within this organization is to teach "Johns" (men who have used prostitutes) the physical and emotional consequences of their actions, to themselves and to the women (or even men, or even young girls and boys) that they are sleeping with. They also take leads and tips to free victims of human trafficking in the area. If there is someone taking part in the sex trade against their will, they do everything in their power to remove them from that situation and help them stand firmly on their own. This man, standing up tall and proud in front of the crowd, acknowledged his unstable childhood and acknowledged its necessity. Without his experiences, he would not be the man he is today, he said. He would also not be able to help S.A.G.E. in the same way he does now, as he would not be able to relate to the victims he sees on a daily basis.
The ability to embrace one's painful memories and realize that they are another building block in the person you have become today is an admirable and incredibly mature quality. It shows you are confident in the person you are now, that with the cards you were dealt you were able to build a castle of sorts.
I'll end with a quote from George Orwell's essay "Reflections on Ghandi" (yeah, he went there);
"The essence of being human is that one does not seek perfection, that one is sometimes willing to commit sins for the sake of loyalty, that one does not push asceticism to the point where it makes friendly intercourse impossible, and that one is prepared in the end to be defeated and broken up by life, which is the inevitable price of fastening one's love upon other human individuals".
Monday, March 30, 2009
inspired by interiors
This spring break I traveled. I met new people, refreshed my outlook, charged my heart's batteries. One night, after watching Crimes and Misdemeanors (Woody Allen) with some new friends, I fell asleep thinking about Interiors (another Woody Allen movie). There is one line from Interiors that always ends up echoing in my head and I end up arguing with it. The argument is always the same, and goes something like this:
Head (which sounds suspiciously similar to Diane Keaton's character in 'Interiors'): "Life loses its meaning in the face of death."
Jenny: Really? You think so?
Head: What's the point? I mean, you saw 'Stardust Memories'- no matter which route you take or how much money you spend on your first class ticket you end up in the same dump.
Jenny: I'm not sure I agree with you. I can see why some would. Because death would mean that, no matter the course of our lives, we end up in the same spot, like what you said. That makes sense. We can struggle continuously without really moving anywhere.
This is not, however, absent of meaning. If life were never ending, if we were immortal, how would that infuse any more meaning? I think it would dilute any meaning. Our actions and thoughts would not be as precious. Since we would have all of the time in the world, we would simply be running this metaphorical treadmill infinitely.
Life, in the face of death, is a choice. We are allotted a certain amount of time and the way we ration it out is meaningful. A sunset is beautiful because its colors are so intense and fleeting. Would it not lose its beauty if the sun never dipped below the horizon?
Head (which sounds suspiciously similar to Diane Keaton's character in 'Interiors'): "Life loses its meaning in the face of death."
Jenny: Really? You think so?
Head: What's the point? I mean, you saw 'Stardust Memories'- no matter which route you take or how much money you spend on your first class ticket you end up in the same dump.
Jenny: I'm not sure I agree with you. I can see why some would. Because death would mean that, no matter the course of our lives, we end up in the same spot, like what you said. That makes sense. We can struggle continuously without really moving anywhere.
This is not, however, absent of meaning. If life were never ending, if we were immortal, how would that infuse any more meaning? I think it would dilute any meaning. Our actions and thoughts would not be as precious. Since we would have all of the time in the world, we would simply be running this metaphorical treadmill infinitely.
Life, in the face of death, is a choice. We are allotted a certain amount of time and the way we ration it out is meaningful. A sunset is beautiful because its colors are so intense and fleeting. Would it not lose its beauty if the sun never dipped below the horizon?
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